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Saturday, July 4, 2009
Tips on Keeping Your Marriage Together
Respect his family members:
A man’s extended family is an integral part of his life now that you are his nuclear family. Coping with in-laws can be frustrating especially with mothers that don’t approve of you (like Monster-in-law), but bringing that baggage into your home is not needed. Be the best daughter-in-law you can be and help your husband in family affairs. The most important thing is that you are his wife whether they like it or not and then he loves you. Stay clear of anything that might cause friction between you and his family.
A warm welcome is not a bad idea:
Welcoming your spouse home from work or whenever he or she has being to may seem unimportant but it is the reason why your husband comes back home to you or why your wife looks forward to seeing you that day. It fosters intimacy between both of you.
Can you imagine how hurt your wife will be if she finds out you transferred some funds from your mutual account without her knowledge or how you would feel if you learnt that she changed your child’s school? Marriage is a partnership; hence the consciousness to make decisions together is very crucial in your marriage. You end up making decisions that will be mutual and favourable to each other.
Independence:
It is important that husbands and wives should not lose their identity if they are to succeed working together as a team. A woman lost her husband after thirty years of marriage and suddenly, she was at a crossroad. She didn’t know what she wanted because she had lived all her life for her husband. She cooked what he wanted, wore what he liked, went only to places he preferred and watched movies he chooses. She practically lived in her husband’s shadow and didn’t have her own identity. She had lost her own sense of independence. You should both have at least one activity that does not involve your spouse.
Celebrate as much as you can:
Make the most of your special times. Celebrate events like a promotion, acquiring your dream house, when your wife is pregnant and so on. Life is full of ups and downs and it is also short, so have fun and treat yourselves while you look forward to the next best thing.
A man’s extended family is an integral part of his life now that you are his nuclear family. Coping with in-laws can be frustrating especially with mothers that don’t approve of you (like Monster-in-law), but bringing that baggage into your home is not needed. Be the best daughter-in-law you can be and help your husband in family affairs. The most important thing is that you are his wife whether they like it or not and then he loves you. Stay clear of anything that might cause friction between you and his family.
A warm welcome is not a bad idea:
Welcoming your spouse home from work or whenever he or she has being to may seem unimportant but it is the reason why your husband comes back home to you or why your wife looks forward to seeing you that day. It fosters intimacy between both of you.
Can you imagine how hurt your wife will be if she finds out you transferred some funds from your mutual account without her knowledge or how you would feel if you learnt that she changed your child’s school? Marriage is a partnership; hence the consciousness to make decisions together is very crucial in your marriage. You end up making decisions that will be mutual and favourable to each other.
Independence:
It is important that husbands and wives should not lose their identity if they are to succeed working together as a team. A woman lost her husband after thirty years of marriage and suddenly, she was at a crossroad. She didn’t know what she wanted because she had lived all her life for her husband. She cooked what he wanted, wore what he liked, went only to places he preferred and watched movies he chooses. She practically lived in her husband’s shadow and didn’t have her own identity. She had lost her own sense of independence. You should both have at least one activity that does not involve your spouse.
Celebrate as much as you can:
Make the most of your special times. Celebrate events like a promotion, acquiring your dream house, when your wife is pregnant and so on. Life is full of ups and downs and it is also short, so have fun and treat yourselves while you look forward to the next best thing.
Singles: Why Fall For Deceit?
Hear: “When Ted proposed to me, I was elated.” says Anne. According to the 40 years old, her career was facing stiff opposition because she wasn’t married and so she became desperate. She met Ted who worked as a painter, supplying paintings to Anne’s company. He was six years younger than her but very mature.
“He was very caring; he later was in charge of my account. He was there for me during the barrages of interviews I had to go through to be promoted. Later on I urged him to move in with me. He didn’t hesitate and he assumed the role of a husband, you could imagine my joy when he finally proposed. After ten months of finally clinching the promotion to Manager of one of the company’s branches, Ted eloped with my personal assistant. Since he had access to my accounts, he could get all the funds and documents they needed for their travels. Fortunately, we didn’t get married because he said his mother advised him I get married since I was older than he was and then a society wedding would follow. I have being so foolish!”
See: Being in love does not stop you from making inquiries about your partner. Ask questions, get o know their family and friends and the place they hang out. Don’t ever throw away rumours, suggestions and stories about your date. That could just save you from heartache. Desperation is another factor for this. Men are smarter beings and can smell a desperate heart no matter the make up. Also when a woman is more interested in the guy’s purse than the person or character, she usually ends up being the victim of deceit.
“He was very caring; he later was in charge of my account. He was there for me during the barrages of interviews I had to go through to be promoted. Later on I urged him to move in with me. He didn’t hesitate and he assumed the role of a husband, you could imagine my joy when he finally proposed. After ten months of finally clinching the promotion to Manager of one of the company’s branches, Ted eloped with my personal assistant. Since he had access to my accounts, he could get all the funds and documents they needed for their travels. Fortunately, we didn’t get married because he said his mother advised him I get married since I was older than he was and then a society wedding would follow. I have being so foolish!”
See: Being in love does not stop you from making inquiries about your partner. Ask questions, get o know their family and friends and the place they hang out. Don’t ever throw away rumours, suggestions and stories about your date. That could just save you from heartache. Desperation is another factor for this. Men are smarter beings and can smell a desperate heart no matter the make up. Also when a woman is more interested in the guy’s purse than the person or character, she usually ends up being the victim of deceit.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Can love be described?
CAN LOVE BE DESCRIBED?
How can you describe love? How can you tell that you are really in love?
Love is a difficult thing to explain but not difficult to express. There is a saying that you can give without loving but you can’t love without giving.
Yes! Love involves giving, and giving means sharing. You share what you have not just with your spouse but with every other person you claim to love. I will be specifying on those in relationships but are not sure if the relationship is altar-bound.
Love means sharing. It means sharing your time, resources, and everything you can call your own. Love also involves making sacrifices. This is a major thing you have to take note of when you are dating or in a serious relationship.
If your partner is tight-fisted, even to you, then you have to watch out, it is really one of the dangerous signs to guard against. Love is not one-sided and it will never be. If you are in a relationship and you think your partner is in love with you but it looks like you are the only one trying to make it work, then you are in a one-sided relationship. Love involves commitment. It involves two different people working together to bring out a life of bliss from life’s challenges.
Some people don’t even know if they are in love! They have numerous girlfriends that they like but they can’t just seem to be able to ask one to marry them. Some ladies, due to one past experience or the other, have closed their hearts to love. They can’t see any good in a man.
Well, for love to thrive, you have to let go of all your bad experiences. You have to learn to forgive, only them can you love yourself. Once you can love yourself, you can then love other people positively. Married couples that stay married have come to accept that they have to love their spouse with the whole package. A tall, dark and handsome man might not be a clean person and a short, beautiful woman might be lousy. But if you genuinely love them as individuals, then you must be willing to love the whole package.
I think that above all what has being said above and you still can describe if you are in love, then you should check your expectations of a perfect man or woman. There is no perfect man or woman anywhere. As the days pass by in the relationship, you teach each other to be that perfect spouse. Bad characters die hard; don’t expect your partner to change overnight because it won’t work. You have to be patient and in that process, you will be hurt several times. You have to learn how to communicate and appreciate when the other person is making the effort to change.
Love is an individual thing. Nobody can be forced to fall in love. But you can nurture love. You can invest in it and see it yield rewards. You can be patient and not nagging. You can be quite and not criticizing. You can be willing to learn and not lord what you want on your partner. Love is a beautiful thing.
How can you describe love? How can you tell that you are really in love?
Love is a difficult thing to explain but not difficult to express. There is a saying that you can give without loving but you can’t love without giving.
Yes! Love involves giving, and giving means sharing. You share what you have not just with your spouse but with every other person you claim to love. I will be specifying on those in relationships but are not sure if the relationship is altar-bound.
Love means sharing. It means sharing your time, resources, and everything you can call your own. Love also involves making sacrifices. This is a major thing you have to take note of when you are dating or in a serious relationship.
If your partner is tight-fisted, even to you, then you have to watch out, it is really one of the dangerous signs to guard against. Love is not one-sided and it will never be. If you are in a relationship and you think your partner is in love with you but it looks like you are the only one trying to make it work, then you are in a one-sided relationship. Love involves commitment. It involves two different people working together to bring out a life of bliss from life’s challenges.
Some people don’t even know if they are in love! They have numerous girlfriends that they like but they can’t just seem to be able to ask one to marry them. Some ladies, due to one past experience or the other, have closed their hearts to love. They can’t see any good in a man.
Well, for love to thrive, you have to let go of all your bad experiences. You have to learn to forgive, only them can you love yourself. Once you can love yourself, you can then love other people positively. Married couples that stay married have come to accept that they have to love their spouse with the whole package. A tall, dark and handsome man might not be a clean person and a short, beautiful woman might be lousy. But if you genuinely love them as individuals, then you must be willing to love the whole package.
I think that above all what has being said above and you still can describe if you are in love, then you should check your expectations of a perfect man or woman. There is no perfect man or woman anywhere. As the days pass by in the relationship, you teach each other to be that perfect spouse. Bad characters die hard; don’t expect your partner to change overnight because it won’t work. You have to be patient and in that process, you will be hurt several times. You have to learn how to communicate and appreciate when the other person is making the effort to change.
Love is an individual thing. Nobody can be forced to fall in love. But you can nurture love. You can invest in it and see it yield rewards. You can be patient and not nagging. You can be quite and not criticizing. You can be willing to learn and not lord what you want on your partner. Love is a beautiful thing.
Making Your Bad Marriage Good
Hi there,
I was talking to the team at Save My Marriage Today recently, and we were talking about marriages gone bad. It seemed at one time that the only place that marriages went bust was in Hollywood, but anyone you talk to now either knows someone divorced or someone with marital problems. Hey, it may even be you.
The single biggest reason couples break up is due to "falling out of love" or poor communication. It seems as though many couples reach the 5 or 10 year anniversary and it becomes a time of regret and reflection on opportunities lost. Too many people end their marriages because the love is not the same as it used to be, and they don't know how to love their partners anymore. It's so frustrating!
If "falling out of love" sounds familiar to you, help is at hand:
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Are you or your partner falling out of love?
Is your marriage falling apart and feeling powerless?
Do you have anger and conflict tearing you two apart?
Is your marriage affected by addiction issues?
Partner cheated on you?
Marriage affected by money problems?
Are you in a marriage that is suffering because your partner has depression?
Is the honeymoon over?
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Andrew's Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course helps all couples, both young and old, consider their relationship problems and how their misconceptions and attitudes can help shape a recovery or add to their ordeal.
It is quite normal for a marriage to go through cycles, and arguments will happen from time to time. In fact, one thing they talk about in the course is how disagreements are normal. It's nothing to be ashamed about! Its how you deal with those arguments and disagreements that determines the health of your relationship.
The Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course is an instant-download 12-part video and written course, AND includes FOUR additional topic-specific courses where Andrew, Richard and Amy delve into relationship issues for couples dealing with depression, addiction, infidelity, and money problems. That's 8 hours of video and 5 study guides to work your way through!
Plus there are bonus interviews with guest relationship coaches Scot and Emily McKay discussing ways to cope with a partner with mental illness, and Mimi Tanner discussing how to keep your spouse interested in you forever.
In addition to this is a free email consultation so that customers can discuss any additional marriage issues with a member of the team. This really can help ANY couple with almost ANY marriage problem!
I really do believe Andrew and the Save My Marriage Today team are onto a good thing here, and they really want to help. The techniques are fresh, thought provoking, come from a range of perspectives, and have been proven over and over to help save marriages. I was very impressed with this course and have recommended it to everyone I know.
I would encourage you to look for yourself and do something today to kick-start your marriage-saving solution. There is never a better time to save your marriage!
Visit:http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r and take control of your future. I’m sure you will be as impressed as I was.
Bye for now,
Olutimilehin Olubusola
I was talking to the team at Save My Marriage Today recently, and we were talking about marriages gone bad. It seemed at one time that the only place that marriages went bust was in Hollywood, but anyone you talk to now either knows someone divorced or someone with marital problems. Hey, it may even be you.
The single biggest reason couples break up is due to "falling out of love" or poor communication. It seems as though many couples reach the 5 or 10 year anniversary and it becomes a time of regret and reflection on opportunities lost. Too many people end their marriages because the love is not the same as it used to be, and they don't know how to love their partners anymore. It's so frustrating!
If "falling out of love" sounds familiar to you, help is at hand:
Click here http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r
Online author Andrew Rusbatch showed me the latest course he has created to help troubled couples, and to be honest, I was very impressed! Andrew is the host of Save My Marriage Today Home Study Course. It's a fantastic course that covers all the essential aspects to a healthy marriage.
Are you or your partner falling out of love?
Is your marriage falling apart and feeling powerless?
Do you have anger and conflict tearing you two apart?
Is your marriage affected by addiction issues?
Partner cheated on you?
Marriage affected by money problems?
Are you in a marriage that is suffering because your partner has depression?
Is the honeymoon over?
Many couples break up over issues that could have been resolved if they had only taken the time for self-examination. Let's face it, you can't always control what your partner does, and the Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course recognizes this and focuses on your actions and beliefs, and how they are shaping your approach to save your marriage.
Andrew's Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course helps all couples, both young and old, consider their relationship problems and how their misconceptions and attitudes can help shape a recovery or add to their ordeal.
It is quite normal for a marriage to go through cycles, and arguments will happen from time to time. In fact, one thing they talk about in the course is how disagreements are normal. It's nothing to be ashamed about! Its how you deal with those arguments and disagreements that determines the health of your relationship.
The Save My Marriage Today Premium Home Study Course is an instant-download 12-part video and written course, AND includes FOUR additional topic-specific courses where Andrew, Richard and Amy delve into relationship issues for couples dealing with depression, addiction, infidelity, and money problems. That's 8 hours of video and 5 study guides to work your way through!
Plus there are bonus interviews with guest relationship coaches Scot and Emily McKay discussing ways to cope with a partner with mental illness, and Mimi Tanner discussing how to keep your spouse interested in you forever.
In addition to this is a free email consultation so that customers can discuss any additional marriage issues with a member of the team. This really can help ANY couple with almost ANY marriage problem!
I really do believe Andrew and the Save My Marriage Today team are onto a good thing here, and they really want to help. The techniques are fresh, thought provoking, come from a range of perspectives, and have been proven over and over to help save marriages. I was very impressed with this course and have recommended it to everyone I know.
I would encourage you to look for yourself and do something today to kick-start your marriage-saving solution. There is never a better time to save your marriage!
Visit:http://tinyurl.com/m9uy9r and take control of your future. I’m sure you will be as impressed as I was.
Bye for now,
Olutimilehin Olubusola
Making your marriage work
Making your marriage work
After two years of marriage with Jude, Jane thought it was heaven on earth. They were a happy couple what with Jane three months gone. Jane had what every woman would dream of. A lovely husband who was faithful and comfortable and she wasn’t doing badly herself. They were both God-fearing and they knew the love they had for each other was going to take them through thick and thin or so they thought.
The next scan Jane went for revealed that a fibroid was growing alongside her baby. It was so big that the doctors were speculating if the baby was going to survive but they settled for surgery and that was when trouble started in Jane and Jude’s perfect marriage.
Jude was devastated because exactly the same thing killed his mother and the baby sister he didn’t get to know. His father wasn’t the same person again. It was like the death of his mother killed his father and so their lovely home was never the same because Jude’s father didn’t get over it till his death.
Jude made up his mind that Jane’s illness wasn’t going to bring him down like his mother’s sickness did to his father. In as much as he loved his wife and unborn child, he detached himself from her emotionally and the crack on their marriage wall got wider.
Jane didn’t understand what was happening. She needed her husband but he was nowhere to be found because he avoided her. Though she knew the same thing happened to his mum but she also knew that Jude was scared but she was helpless because Jude didn’t allow her to reach him (he started coming home late at night). Jane had to fight for her life and that of her baby alone. The day of the surgery was fast approaching and Jude’s ‘night-outs’ increased. Jane learnt how to become a better wife; she worked at her marriage and continually prayed for Jude.
On the night scheduled for the surgery, Jude was about leaving the house when he suddenly saw a picture of Jane and the doors to his emotion came loose. He suddenly realized how selfish and uncaring he had being to his wife especially now that she needed him. He remembered all what she did to talk to him; he then prayed she would survive so that they could work at their marriage together. He poured out his heart to God and he felt peace. He raced down to the hospital just as they were about wheeling Jane to the theatre and begged for her forgiveness, he also prayed that she would survive and told her he loved her. Ten hours later, Jane was in the recovery room. She miraculously survived but lost the baby in the process, but the most important thing in her life had being regained- her marriage. Jane saved her marriage herself.
See…
If you are going through a crisis in your marriage, you have to work at it. Nobody, not even God will come from heaven to work at it for you (but He will give you the know-how). A marriage in crises can only be repaired by the manufacturer, so you have to go back to Him to fix it for you. Whatever you invest in your marriage depends on what you get out of it.
To make your marriage work, you have to work on your fears and shortcomings, don’t ever think that you can change your spouse. You should be the one to change (just like Jane did). Respect each other. Respect is not a gift, it is earned. Pray for and with each other. No one can pray for your husband as much as he will pray for himself and you praying for him, viz-a-viz for the wife too.
Ciao!
After two years of marriage with Jude, Jane thought it was heaven on earth. They were a happy couple what with Jane three months gone. Jane had what every woman would dream of. A lovely husband who was faithful and comfortable and she wasn’t doing badly herself. They were both God-fearing and they knew the love they had for each other was going to take them through thick and thin or so they thought.
The next scan Jane went for revealed that a fibroid was growing alongside her baby. It was so big that the doctors were speculating if the baby was going to survive but they settled for surgery and that was when trouble started in Jane and Jude’s perfect marriage.
Jude was devastated because exactly the same thing killed his mother and the baby sister he didn’t get to know. His father wasn’t the same person again. It was like the death of his mother killed his father and so their lovely home was never the same because Jude’s father didn’t get over it till his death.
Jude made up his mind that Jane’s illness wasn’t going to bring him down like his mother’s sickness did to his father. In as much as he loved his wife and unborn child, he detached himself from her emotionally and the crack on their marriage wall got wider.
Jane didn’t understand what was happening. She needed her husband but he was nowhere to be found because he avoided her. Though she knew the same thing happened to his mum but she also knew that Jude was scared but she was helpless because Jude didn’t allow her to reach him (he started coming home late at night). Jane had to fight for her life and that of her baby alone. The day of the surgery was fast approaching and Jude’s ‘night-outs’ increased. Jane learnt how to become a better wife; she worked at her marriage and continually prayed for Jude.
On the night scheduled for the surgery, Jude was about leaving the house when he suddenly saw a picture of Jane and the doors to his emotion came loose. He suddenly realized how selfish and uncaring he had being to his wife especially now that she needed him. He remembered all what she did to talk to him; he then prayed she would survive so that they could work at their marriage together. He poured out his heart to God and he felt peace. He raced down to the hospital just as they were about wheeling Jane to the theatre and begged for her forgiveness, he also prayed that she would survive and told her he loved her. Ten hours later, Jane was in the recovery room. She miraculously survived but lost the baby in the process, but the most important thing in her life had being regained- her marriage. Jane saved her marriage herself.
See…
If you are going through a crisis in your marriage, you have to work at it. Nobody, not even God will come from heaven to work at it for you (but He will give you the know-how). A marriage in crises can only be repaired by the manufacturer, so you have to go back to Him to fix it for you. Whatever you invest in your marriage depends on what you get out of it.
To make your marriage work, you have to work on your fears and shortcomings, don’t ever think that you can change your spouse. You should be the one to change (just like Jane did). Respect each other. Respect is not a gift, it is earned. Pray for and with each other. No one can pray for your husband as much as he will pray for himself and you praying for him, viz-a-viz for the wife too.
Ciao!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
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